In early October of 2012, our family moved from Seattle, WA
to Nashville, TN as the start of a new chapter in our lives. I (Joseph) was
returning to full-time schoolwork in a doctoral program in Leadership at
Lancaster Bible College. No longer would I have been able to work as an
engineer, attend school, continue our work in Honduras, and be a halfway decent
dad and husband. Thus, we decided to pack up our belongings and move to
Tennessee, where I would have easier (and cheaper) access to Pennsylvania and Honduras,
and Hailey could pick up some photography work to help support the family.
Little did we know that about six months later we would be packing up once
again, but this time to move back to Honduras.
On Super Bowl Sunday, we began our day like any other day.
We woke up, drank coffee and ate breakfast with our children (the kids didn’t
do the coffee part), put Abbey down for her morning nap, and then left for
church. After church, I had a meeting to attend (at the church), so Hailey
returned home to put the children down for a nap. Because we only have one car,
I had to wait after the meeting was over for Hailey to return to get me with
the kids. Then, it was off to Hailey’s brother’s house for a Super Bowl party.
Rewind just a couple hours to my meeting…it was a meeting
for people interested in getting involved in missions at Brentwood Baptist (The
church we have been attending since our move). At the end of the meeting, I had
a couple hours to wait, and I spent it reading and praying. It was during this
time that I felt God impressing upon my heart that He desired a change in our
lives. Both Hailey and I felt like we were spinning our wheels here in
Nashville, and weren’t serving in ways that God has gifted us. To make a long
story short, I decided to write Hailey an email explaining everything that I
was feeling and thinking.
At that same time (I didn’t know this until about 9 PM that
night), Hailey was having a conversation with her younger sister about our
lives here in Nashville. While it has been a joy to be around Hailey’s side of
the family, Hailey explained to her sister that our family was not serving in
ways that we would like to serve. Furthermore, Hailey felt that God would be
opening up doors for her to move away from photography and back into service.
She told her sister, “I just don’t want to be the one to push this, so I am
praying that God speaks to Joseph.”
Reminder: The abovementioned paragraph occurred as I was sending the email.
Reminder: The abovementioned paragraph occurred as I was sending the email.
So, Hailey now comes to pick me up at church and head to the
Super Bowl party. We have a great time with family, but neither one of us
mention what we had been feeling that afternoon. We left the party early
(that’s what happens when you have two young kids) and went home. After getting
the kids in bed, Hailey sits down to read her email. To her surprise (looking
back, it wasn’t much of a surprise…that’s how God works), she had an email from
me explaining why I think God is calling us back into ministry/service.
Over the next several days, Hailey and I spent a lot of time
in thought and prayer (mostly individually). We both felt like God was opening
up the doors for us to return to Honduras as a family. While there were several
practical reasons to stay in Nashville through the summer, at least, we wanted
to respond to God’s call as soon as possible. Thus, with weddings on the books
in June and July, and a trip to the Northwest scheduled in July, we decided to
pack up and leave at the end of April. We recognized that logistically this
would present some challenges, but were reminded of the many great men/women in
the Bible who did things for God that seemed crazy by worldly standards.
Since we made the decision to move to Honduras a few months
ago, we have gotten a wide variety of responses. However, we have never lost
confidence in God’s call, and not once have we doubted whether we should move
forward with our move. We have had greater peace, and even though circumstances
here haven’t changed, our outlook has. Both Hailey and I can truly say that we
are excited and grateful to be responding to God’s call in our lives. While
Honduras will certainly present many challenges, there is great opportunity as
well.
Please feel free to share our story with others. We hope
that it will inspire others to listen to God’s call. Also, please keep us in
your thoughts and prayers – they are much needed and greatly appreciated! And
if you ever find yourself in Central America, please contact us. We’d love to
put you up for a few nights and allow you to experience our ministry.
Many Blessings,
The Rahm Family (Joseph, Hailey, Micah, & Abigail)